Once your wedding is over, you have a great trip for just the two of you to look forward to. It’s exciting to think about relaxing together after your big day, yet deciding on the details can be frustrating. Prior to booking, consider these tips from our honeymoon planning checklist.
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TL;DR ~ Tackle your couple’s trip effortlessly with our honeymoon planning checklist. Be sure to plan early, set a budget, and put that phone away during your honeymoon.
Why use a pre-honeymoon planning guide?
After a long time planning your big day, you deserve a relaxing trip! Being able to plan ahead and get it right is essential.
15 Step Honeymoon Planning Checklist
Pre-Honeymoon Planning Checklist Points
1. Set a honeymoon budget.
The least fun part of wedding planning is, unfortunately, also a part of honeymoon planning. The dreaded budget. Consequently, determining a price range is best done before exploring all your honeymoon ideas.
Setting a budget and putting aside finances can help you determine where to go, when to go, and how long to stay. Be upfront about what you can afford so you don’t overextend your budget.
Another idea—especially if you can’t think of much to put on your registry—is to register for a honeymoon. Guests can treat you to a massage or a meal out—it really is a fun way to have an affordable honeymoon.
2. Start honeymoon planning early.
As soon as you know your wedding date, you should start looking at honeymoon destinations. Yes, it’s already a very busy time. However, if one partner is handling the majority of the wedding details, the other can research travel information.
You don’t want to find that your dream destination is booked because you waited too long! Also, deals and coupons may pop up if you keep a watch on the honeymoon places that interest you.
A honeymoon planning checklist can help ensure you are both happy with your trip!
3. Plan your honeymoon together.
Ok, don’t scratch what was said in the above point on our honeymoon planning checklist! If one is doing most of the research, be sure to run the information by the other. You need to ensure that both of you have a fabulous time, after all!
One partner may think of positives and negatives that the other has not even considered. Having insight from both of you is best and will ensure that you will both enjoy your time away. Talk about what is essential to each of you as you begin your planning stages.
4. Talk about your honeymoon itinerary.
For some, the ideal vacation is exploring European city streets, sampling ethnic cuisine, and fitting in as many tours as possible. For others, the allure of a resort’s honeymoon packages sounds relaxing and is the perfect fit.
Be sure to strike a balance between time spent exploring and the amount of relaxation included in your honeymoon itinerary. Including both is okay, but be sure to discuss expectations.
This ensures that the person who wants to read a book on the beach isn’t dragged from site to site. Don’t be afraid to be very specific about what you want. It’s best to concentrate on relaxing, especially if you go right after your wedding.
5. Don’t feel pressured to leave immediately after your wedding.
Although most couples head off to unforgettable honeymoon destinations immediately post-wedding, it’s not necessary. Go when it’s best for both of you.
Work schedules and life events sometimes don’t allow for an immediate vacation, and that’s ok. Whether you wait a week or a few months, head off on your honeymoon when you can both relax and not feel stressed about being gone.
Talk about your honeymoon itinerary and how to balance relaxing vs. exploring time.
6. Check the seasonal weather.
If you get married in the US in the summer and want to head to Australia, you’d better pack your snow gear. Likewise, many countries have rainy seasons that contribute to their lush landscape during their dry season.
Do your research and know what the weather will be like in the honeymoon places you are considering. Consider honeymoon destinations on a budget that have “shoulder seasons.”
You can take your chance with the weather, but you can avoid tourists—and high costs—during these times. Just be aware so that you can book and pack accordingly.
7. Purchase honeymoon trip insurance.
Expect the unexpected! Although you don’t want to even think about something hindering your dream honeymoon, it’s best to be prepared.
Trip insurance can alleviate any worries or stress if something comes up. Anything you can do for peace of mind is a good thing.
8. Travel under your new—or old—name.
Ensure your name matches the one on your reservation if you are changing your last name. Booking under your new name when your passport still lists your old one can lead to trouble.
It’s best to keep everything in your maiden name (or whatever is on your passport), and you can make any changes legally after you get back from your honeymoon.
Beware of hidden costs that aren’t included in honeymoon packages.
Honeymoon Planning Checklist While On Site
9. Look out for hidden costs.
If you booked one of a resort’s honeymoon packages, be sure to read the fine print about what it includes. More specifically, be aware of what it doesn’t include.
Hotel transfers, cocktails, beach access, and select on-site restaurants may incur an additional charge. You need to know this ahead of time—or at least while you are on-site—so your cost doesn’t skyrocket.
10. Be flexible with your plans.
Do your research, but don’t feel that someone else’s itinerary needs to be duplicated. Read up on honeymoon destinations and take cues from others, but filter through and choose bits and pieces that resonate with you.
You may find that you really wanted to go see that monument, but it’s the perfect day to head to the beach. Be spontaneous, lounge with a cocktail, and enjoy the sunset. Sometimes, last-minute changes in plans can create big memories, so go for it!
11. Put that phone away!
If you’ve researched honeymoon destinations on a budget, chances are you need to enjoy every penny. So stay off your phone! Use it to take a few photos, but don’t feel obligated to post live on Instagram. There’s plenty of time to relive your trip when you get back by posting them all at once.
You don’t need to be checking email, stressing out about the news, or seeing what Sally had for dinner. No, no, no. Focus on the two of you, and stay off your device.
Include both of your honeymoon ideas to ensure that you have a relaxing time together.
12. Let your hotel know that you’re on your honeymoon.
Often, there are little perks for honeymooning couples. Although it’s best to inform your resort or hotel of this beforehand, please remind them of it upon arrival. If you have any requests during booking, such as an oceanside room or a restaurant reservation, please let us know.
Honeymooning guests may get a room upgrade, a romantic dinner for two, or a complimentary bottle of champagne. Some will even offer discounts on spa services to help you relax on your getaway. Who can resist that?
13. Surprise your spouse.
Honeymoons are amazing, but consider ways to make them even better. You can surprise your partner with a couples’ massage on the beach, a special candlelight dinner, or a photo session. Although a surprise doesn’t have to cost much!
Write a special note to your new husband or wife and leave it on their pillow. If you’re musically or poetically inclined, perform a piece just for them. Also, guys, maybe consider ditching the boxer briefs and sleeping in something else. That may be the biggest surprise of all—ha!
14. Plan a photo session in your honeymoon destinations.
This is such a fun idea! Yes, you will have tons of beautiful wedding photographs. However, having a session just for the two of you can be incredibly romantic. Additionally, you will have images of yourself in a memorable destination without wearing your wedding attire.
Hiring a local photographer ensures that you will have pictures taken in locations that most tourists will miss. Plus, it’s a fun excuse to get dressed up and then head out to dinner after the photo session. So fun!
15. Immerse yourself in the culture.
Even if you live in Arizona and are headed to California’s Wine Country, there are new things to experience. A variety of wines comes to mind first, of course, but also sample locally grown foods.
Beyond the culinary, there are also sights, performances, and art forms that can only be found in that area. Be open to seeing and trying different things while you are there.
A honeymoon planning guide can help you find a location that interests both of you.
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If you need more advice for your honeymoon, check out our destinations section. We have advice on where to go and how to have a fabulous honeymoon. Enjoy planning time away with your new spouse!
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