Rehearsal Dinner BBQ

Rehearsal Dinner BBQ as seen on Hill City Bride Wedding Blog

The rehearsal dinner is a fun time for an intimate gathering with family and friends, and in this case it’s an outdoor, tented barbecue! Christian and Jami’s event had a true southern flair, and here are some tips for your own rehearsal dinner BBQ. (PS. Check out the magazine feature here.)

Incorporate fun food items of the traditional south. Our faves? Check out the list below.

  • Sweet Tea
  • Savory Cheesecake (with the twist of Eastern Blue Crab!)
  • Pulled Pork
  • Mac & Cheese
  • Spoon Bread
  • Oysters
  • Local Wine

Other Elements We Adore

  • Mint Juleps were passed on silver trays as the guests arrived.
  • Water in elegantly etched bottles was placed at each table.
  • Those napkins? The guests were able to take them home as a keepsake.
  • The “crab” cake is an adorable element!
  • As far as location goes, the couple rented an estate they found via Airbnb. Brilliant!
  • Galvanized trays, bowls and surfaces were utilized throughout.

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Byrd Park E-session – Spencer & Monica

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This session by Hope Dalton Photography is so stunning! Monica and Spencer chose to have their session in Richmond at The Carillon at Byrd Park. Here is what I love about this Byrd Park e-session:

  • Monica has such soulful eyes. Every time she looks into the camera, it seems as though she’s saying 1000 words. So beautiful and communicative. And I adore the way Spencer looks at her. It’s love!
  • The location in Richmond is so lovely – with both rich architecture and lovely landscape. Gorgeous!
  • Off the shoulder looks are en vogue at the moment, and her top is oh so stunning.
  • Her ring is GORGEOUS. Love, love, love her diamond engagement ring set in rose gold.

Enjoy this Byrd Park e-session today. It’s lovely!

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Portland Maine – My Travel Story

My time in Maine was sponsored by Visit Portland and Marry in Maine. I had a wonderful time, and all of my opinions are my own and genuine. 

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Anyone who knows me knows that I adore travel! Especially when work and exploring can be combined into one. It’s definitely a perk of the job – especially when I get to head to Maine, one of my favorite states! My family used to vacation on different lakes in Maine, which I remember fondly, and my cousin actually got married on a sailboat in Maine (literally my favorite wedding ever, besides my own, of course).

Before I share my trip to Maine from a wedding perspective, I’d like for you to catch a glimpse of my time from my own personal travel story. I definitely had a great time traveling to Maine – mainly Portland and Millinocket – to tour with Marry in Maine and other wedding bloggers (whom I only knew via social media).

I traveled to Maine on my own, and when I arrived the most beautiful swag bag was waiting for me. The way to a blogger’s heart is definitely a well-curated swag bag – ha! I adore my Sea Bag (what you see below with lobsters all over) as they are actually made out of reclaimed sails. So great, and sturdy, too! I use mine to hold washcloths in my bathroom, and I ended up purchasing a log carrier for my husband (so cute). I stayed at the luxury Portland Harbor Hotel – I can’t express how comfy the beds were!

We (I say “we” because Chelsea – the ultra sweet blogger behind Tidewater and Tulle – and I arrived a little earlier than the other girls) had the opportunity to tour Diamond Cove, which is a wedding venue and resort on a nearby island. Yes, an island! We had to take a boat to get there… so fun.

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After our tour, we headed out to Easy Day, which is a bowling alley AND a great restaurant. It’s got the most upscale food and fun drinks of any bowling place I’ve ever been to. Just look at how beautiful that drink is! I also was able to try the famous lobster roll. Now, let me just say that I’m not a fan of any type of seafood, but when I go on a press trip I try things for fun. Well, I’m convinced! The lobster rolls were oh so tasty and delicious.

From what I recall, I did a pretty good job bowling (which to me is breaking 100, lol), so it was quite the success. It was here that we met up with the lovely gals from Marry in Maine – Holly and Elissa. I also was able to meet our fellow travelers, Brittny of Love Inc and Gillian of Coastal Bride, who are both amazing ladies. Our group was complete!

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Our first night’s stay was at the Inn by the Sea – gorgeous! Actually, it was photos of this location that made me apply to go on the press trip. I adore being by the water! The hotel itself is made up of luxury rooms – mine had an ocean view and a fireplace to keep warm. It was so lovely to be able to relax and grab a few moments of alone time with a local magazine. Tulips were in bloom, too!

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For the evening, we boarded The Maine Brew Bus (although we didn’t tour, this sounds like a fabulous thing to put on your Portland, Maine to do list) and headed to the Black Point Inn – a historic, seaside property – for drinks and dinner. The beverages were gorgeous, and the dining table was beautifully decorated by Laurie Andrews Design (such beautiful florals below). Our meal was delectable, and from drinks to dessert, I left stuffed! I do have to say that these writer’s trips aren’t always friendly on the waistline, lol.

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We returned to stay at Inn by the Sea and wake up to a lovely breakfast before we headed 3.5 hours north to the woods. Exciting!! I had never been to Millinocket, Maine before as it’s not a coastal town, yet it has plenty of water, which includes what else? Millinocket Lake.

We rode until we arrived at the New England Outdoor Center, which is a haven for the outdoorsy person/couple/family. With a TON of activities year-round (think snowmobiling to kayaking), the center offers a variety of cabins both near the water and in the woods. The cabins also range from small to large to accommodate a couple or a vacationing family. After all, who doesn’t want to vacation in Maine? It was chilly, but I actually was brave enough to put my toes into Millinocket Lake… why not?
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Part of our trip to Millinocket included an adventure ride to look for moose, which was incredibly fun, yet unsuccessful. The closest we got was seeing moose droppings, lol. Oh well! We did end up stopping and actually hiking – see those nice boards set up for walking? So convenient! We hiked to a lake that was tucked in between the mountains and oh so cold and windy – you can see Gillian (my Millinocket cabin mate) and me freezing just long enough to grab a photo, but it was worth it to go adventuring in Maine for a little bit. That evening we had dinner at River Driver’s Restaurant and had a nice time chatting with the locals.

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The next morning it was time to head back to Portland, Maine. We ended up at The Press Hotel to UNION, which is their in-house restaurant. I do have to say that I could have spent ALL day at the hotel because of how well executed the theme of writing was. I can’t wait to show you! But first a little brag on our time at UNION. The drink I ordered had a HUGE ice cube in it, which was all too fun. I tried to (again) eat healthy with a salad, but I did splurge on dessert. It was adorable and looked like a terrarium! A little piece of newsprint capped off the newspaper theme as the hotel actually used to be where the offices and printer of Gannett used to be. As a writer, I loved it all!!
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Moving on the incorporation of the writing theme… it was all over! From letterpress blocks to walls made of tightly rolled newspaper to creatively displayed typewriters and typewriter cases, it was just lovely. Even the room numbers were creative (see the 710?) and I can’t tell you how much I wanted to put their “P” doorstop in my suitcase to take home (as my last name is Prince). I was thoroughly impressed with the hotel and it’s meeting rooms.

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We also were able to tour the penthouse suite, which had a rooftop terrace overlooking the city, AND you can get married there!! It’s for a small, intimate ceremony, but what a great place to say I do. I seriously want to renew my vows there – ha. No, I’m not joking. It’s in my plan to head back there someday!

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We ended up taking a tour with Portland Discovery Tours of the city. The views were beautiful, and we got to hear so much of the history of Portland. It was really interesting! The bus left from a location where there is a “locks of love” display as you can see below. One of our stops was at The Portland Head Light, which is one of the most well known lighthouses. It’s gorgeous, too! Take a peek at Gillian, Brittny and me enjoying it below. Maine is so beautiful.
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Can I just tell you that these press trips are PACKED with things to do? We are still on the same day that we left the woods of Millinocket. Whew! And I’m not done yet. From our tour, we went to The Danforth Inn, which is a historic inn a few blocks over from the downtown Portland area. They bill themselves as a luxury boutique inn, and that is exactly right. With just a few rooms – each one is different – the attention to detail is amazing. The beds are super fluffy and comfy, too – see mine below.

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The light inside the inn is just gorgeous, too. The decor is lovely! I also had to marvel at their LIVE moss chandelier – you can see it below. They mist it to keep it alive and healthy, and it definitely makes an impact. Couples have even said their “I do’s” under it. So gorgeous!

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Our evening was capped off at their in-house restaurant, Tempo Dulu. They offered us the tasting menu, which consisted of a wide variety of delicious items. The drinks were also incredibly impressive – each arriving with their own distinct look. One of mine even came in a teacup. Amazing! The multi-course tasting meal was perfect because it was our last night together, and we were able to chat, reflect and have a relaxing time together.

We bloggers headed up to the widow’s walk – morbidly named because ladies used to wait and watch the port for their husbands to come home, and sometimes they didn’t – after dinner. It was a cupola at the very top of the inn, and we definitely talked the night away. It was a fun way to end our last evening!

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The next morning I awoke to head to breakfast – with a personalized menu. Yum! It’s little touches like that which make trips oh so special. After breakfast, we all said our goodbyes, and I had a few moments to peruse the streets of Portland (and take a few photos) before heading to the airport.

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As with any trip, I always start with strangers who end up becoming friends. I’m so thankful to have been able to meet like-minded women who love blogging and understand the triumphs and struggles. Between them and the lovely ladies of Marry in Maine, my trip was a success, a bunch of fun and wonderfully drama free. Ladies, thank you for helping make Maine such a beautiful place to be. *I miss you!*

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Floral Design Inspiration

Did you know that today is National Floral Design Day? As crazy as that may sound, February 28th was designated as such in 1995. Interesting! And what better way to celebrate than with some floral design inspiration from around the web – including some of our favorites! We decided to go pretty in pinks for this posting. Enjoy!

Floral Design Inspiration as seen on Hill City Bride

  1. These hot pink blooms were paired with oranges and yellows in this sunny citrus wedding that you can see in full here. Florals by Perfect Arrangement; photo by Alina Thomas Photography.
  2. Carefully placed flowers make a stunning cake topper, don’t they? Pinks were paired with yellow and extra greenery to create this look. Take a peek at the whole wedding here. This photo is by Visions by Heather Photography with florals by Love Is in the Air.
  3. Pink and white is a perfect combination as you can see here! Flowers are by The Arrangement Company in a photo by Megan Vaughan Photography, and you can view the entire wedding here.
  4. Blue, green and yellow are all paired with pink in this fun centerpiece. What a stunner, and be sure to get more views from the full styled shoot here. Flowers by Bloom by Doyle’s photographed by Lindsey Hinkley Photography.
  5. Last but not least, pink goes with… more pink! Several types of pink flowers (some with yellow centers!) were bundled together in this look. See the full wedding here for more floral design inspiration! Photo by Allison Maxwell Photography with bouquets by Amanda Veronee.

Whether you choose peonies, English roses or another lovely blossom for your big day, consider pink! From soft hues to bright pops, pink is a gorgeous color for your wedding day.

 

Citrusy, Homestead Wedding – Adam & Adrian

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New color palettes are oh so refreshing – plus this one utilizes the Pantone 2017 color of “Greenery” quite well as it compliments the citrusy color palette of this homestead wedding.

  • The wedding took place at the home of the bride. The ceremony was in front of a magnolia tree planted by her parents the year they were married and very special to them all. A large tent adorned the front yard along with a host of high top tables for guests to spread out and enjoy their lush garden spaces. This wedding will definitely serve as inspiration for your own homestead wedding!
  • Lights hung between trees for front yard dancing, Chinese lanterns hung under the tent for pops of color and signs were everywhere hand painted by the bride and her family. The DIY touches are so lovely.
  • Speaking of DIY this bride owns and operates a floral/landscape business and personally did all of the bouquets, boutonnieres, table arrangements, floating blooms and such with the help of friends and family. Amazing! Her unique engagement ring and wedding band are made with leaves on them representing her love for everything floral or with foliage in the outdoors.
  • Also, be sure to notice the photo of the two girls in white dresses. The bride and her very best childhood friend both took pictures together in their mother’s wedding dresses. Adrian had her mother’s wedding gown altered to wear for her reception. The mothers of the bride and her friend were and are still best friends, and both brides were born close to each other and have been close friends since birth. What a fun story!
  • The bride painted a variety of frames and hung her bridal portraits all over the tree in the front yard for everyone to see.

I hope you enjoy and notice all of the special touches in this citrusy, homestead wedding today!

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Sierra Vista E-session – Cody & Ryan

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Both Ryan and Cody are nature lovers and adore being outside, so it’s perfect that they chose a location with a view (and woods!) for their engagement session. So fun! Here are a few of my favorite things about their Sierra Vista e-session:

  • I love that she is wearing white during her e-session – yet obviously not as formal as the white she will wear on her wedding day.
  • Ladies, definitely take a hint. Ryan took the time to have her makeup professionally done, which makes such a difference with photography. Plus, it’s good practice for the upcoming wedding day. Doesn’t she look lovely?
  • Their outfits – from holy (or is it hole-y?) jeans for her to a plaid shirt for him, they are just perfect for the location and style they were going for.

Be sure to take a peek at their images, and I hope you enjoy their Sierra Vista e-session today.

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Nautical Wedding Inspiration

Are you planning a nautical wedding? There’s nothing quite like crisp white paired with navy (and even a hint of green or aqua!) to pull off a lovely waterside event – even if you aren’t close to the water. If you adore being by the ocean or have military attachments, then maybe this color scheme is for you. Enjoy this nautical wedding inspiration today!

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  1. Light blue hydrangeas add just the right amount of softness to a nautical wedding, and paired with a striped navy ribbon, this bouquet is just perfect! See more of this wedding herePhoto: Liz Cook Photography
  2. Want high impact, easy to find table numbers? A nautical knot with a striped card tucked in between the ropes is a great idea! Photo: Henry Photography
  3. Who doesn’t love cookies? Whether as a favor, sweet treat or shower idea, these ones take the cake… uh, cookie? Photo: Colorful Snapshot Photography
  4. Anchors, navy and white chevrons and yellow flowers… ahoy! What a perfectly styled nautical table. Photo: Paul Reynolds Photography
  5. I love, love, LOVE this idea. An old boat was turned into a place card display. What a brilliant idea with such high impact! Photo: Meg Perotti

Hopefully this nautical wedding inspiration helped you plan your day – even if you aren’t looking to plan a nautical themed event. Such fun ideas!

Virginia Horse Farm Wedding {Styled Shoot}

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There is oh so much to love about this styled shoot – after all, it took place at a Virginia horse farm and has oh so many details. Let me tell you about some of my favorites!

  • It goes without saying that the location is absolutely stunning! With nooks and crannies and a house and horse barn to boot, it’s so gorgeous.
  • Speaking of horse barns – be sure to notice that the wedding ceremony actually takes place inside the horse barn. Of course, you need a fairly clean place to have a horse barn wedding (or not, depending on how much of a rustic wedding you want), but this session offers a high impact space for sure.
  • Florals of warm hues – orange roses, pink peonies and ranunculus along with tulips – are placed among white flowers and light blue hydrangeas. What a pretty color palette!
  • Vintage wedding touches – such as blue mason jars and antique china – are placed here and there. You will also see a little nook made just for the couple, which includes a vintage couch and other antique touches. So pretty!

There is so much to inspire you for event – whether or not a Virginia horse farm is your setting. I hope you enjoy the plethora of wedding ideas today!

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The Groom and Wedding Planning

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photos by Meghan Vaughn Photography (left) and K Jugar Photography (right)

{This was originally featured in our recent wedding magazine.}

Planning a wedding can be overwhelming, especially if you’re trying to do it alone. The good news is that you’re not alone! Your wedding is about two people—you and your soon-to-be-spouse. Instead of trying to do everything yourself, keep the following suggestions in mind and get your groom involved in the prenuptial preparations.

  • Like all stereotypes, the one about men not being interested in wedding planning is not always true, but if your groom is a shy about pitching in, remember what he is interested in—you! If it’s about the floral centerpieces for the reception, he might not care much, but if it’s about saving you from total stress meltdown, he’ll probably care a lot. Let him know how much pressure you’re under and ask for his help.

Sierra Vista Bride and Groom as seen on Hill City Bride Wedding Blog

photo by Lauren Paige Photography, see the full wedding here

  • Next it’s time to pull out the old to-do list and decide, together, which tasks each of you will take on. Keep personal interests in mind. Let the music lover take charge of the playlist for the reception while the foodie handles the catering. If you feel strongly about flowers, keep that job for yourself and maybe suggest that your uber-organized groom handle the budget and keep track of contracts and appointments.
  • What about those things that neither of you are particularly thrilled about doing? Well, start by deciding whether they’re absolutely necessary. Do you really need a seating chart or would you rather just let your guests choose their own tables? For those less pleasant chores that you both feel necessary, divide them up evenly or work on them together.

Lynchburg Wedding as seen on Hill City Bride

photo by K Jugar Photography, see the full event here

  • One thing to keep in mind is that if you are asking for his help, you need to be willing to let go of total control. You’ve asked for his opinions and assistance, so it’s only fair that you listen and accept what he’s going to offer. In fact, a great way to get him excited about planning is to make sure that there’s something in it for him to be excited about.
  • What elements of your big day reflect your groom’s personality and style? Some couples get creative with a unique groom’s cake or find ways to incorporate his tastes as well as hers into the wedding cake. Music, wedding favors, and centerpieces can also be easily chosen to reflect personality and interests. What could you add in or change up to make him feel like it really is about him as much as about you?

Marriage is all about working together and there’s no better time to start then when you are planning the wedding. Even if he seems a little reluctant at first, take the time to ask for his help and get him involved. As you work together, you’ll be sure to end up with a wedding that both of you will love.

Aubrey Fredrickson is a happily married, mother-of-two, stay-at-home freelance writer who loves discovering and sharing unique ideas. 

Red Wedding Inspiration

Valentine’s Day is here – so exciting! If you are seeing all things red, then you are sure to enjoy our red wedding inspiration board. One thing I love about the color is that it fits for so many themes and holidays – Valentine’s Day, Christmas, 4th of July (any military, actually!) and other times. It’s a bright hue, but it’s one of my favorites. So whether you are planning a celebration in winter or summer, here are a few lovely ideas I found!

Red Wedding Inspiration as seen on Hill City Bride

  1. I’m always a sucker for cookies – especially when they can do double duty in sending a message to your sweetie. So cute! Photo by Elizabeth in Love.
  2. This barely iced cake is the perfect red wedding inspiration with drippy red flowers. Gorgeous! Photo by Mariel Hannah Photography.
  3. Ok, this idea is just too cute! I truly haven’t seen many (or any?) getaway cars with flowers on the back. Cans, streamers and the like, yes… but I totally adore this amazingly classy way of decorating the escape vehicle. Photo by Laura Gordon Photography with florals by Lindsay Coletta.
  4. Red flowers are so pretty – especially when interspersed with white. With peonies and striped tulips, there is a great variety of red out there when it comes to florals. Photo by Sophie Epton Photography with florals by Isa Events.
  5. Adding a line of low blooms adds interest to a table – especially when paired with romantic, modern lace and red napkins for impact. Photo by Aria Studios with florals by Passion Roots.

I hope you enjoyed today’s red wedding inspiration, and join us next Tuesday for another themed roundup of ideas for your own day.

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